When you’re first having these feelings, it’s terrifying. And I think it’s easy to get lost in all the stuff online, and I get it because a lot of people want to find that community and find people that relate. But you’re the only person who knows what’s going on up there... However long it takes, you will figure it out. Whether that’s your sexuality, or your gender identity, or your style or just identity in general. You will figure it out eventually. And whether you have family who accept you or don’t, you will find the right people who make you feel safe and who become your safe space.